While we all know about Valentine's Day—the day for chocolates, love notes, and expressions of affection—have you ever heard of White Day? Celebrated a month later on March 14th, this day is a unique tradition in Japan. On this day, gentlemen reciprocate with gifts to the ladies who gave them chocolates on Valentine's Day. In other words, it can be called a "reply day".[1] Source

Part 1

Step 1: Make a List of Those Who Gave You Gifts on Valentine's Day.

Step 1

Create a list of those who gave you gifts on Valentine's Day. In Japan, there are two types of chocolates that women give to men: "giri choco" (obligation chocolate) and "honmei choco" (chocolate of true love). Giri choco is usually given to casual acquaintances, while honmei choco is considered the highest quality, given to someone you have romantic feelings for. Separate the ladies who gave you giri choco and honmei choco.

Step 2: Understand the Sweets.

Step 2

Understand the significance of the sweets. Make sure your intentions are clear and won’t lead to any misunderstandings.

  • White chocolate: "Let’s be friends" (in most cases).
  • Chocolate candies: "I like you".
  • Chocolate cookies: "I love you".[4] Source

Step 3: Respond to Giri Choco with a Typical Giri Gift.

Step 3

Respond to giri choco with a typical giri gift. This is quite simple. You can find an inexpensive option at almost any store. A regular box of white chocolate works well for this.

Step 4: Decide What to Gift for Honmei Choco.

Step 4

Decide what to gift for honmei choco. Remember, these types of chocolates indicate that the sender has feelings for you. This will make you think more seriously about what to give in return. If your feelings are mutual, feel free to give her a sweet gift in response! However, it’s important to hint and present the gift. It’s best if your gifts for White Day are white, so keep that color in mind. Use white wrapping paper or a white bag and tie it with some cute ribbons. Here are a few ideas for honmei-style gifts:

  • Cakes, chocolate, candies, and/or cookies (the most popular)
  • Flowers, with roses considered romantic, or choose any favorite flower of hers.
  • Candles
  • A teddy bear
  • Porcelain cups and saucers
  • Perfume, body spray, lotion, and/or scented soap
  • Clothing and accessories (e.g., a dress, necklace, wallet)
  • A card signed especially for her

Step 5: Enhance the Day with Other Meaningful Details.

Step 5

Enhance the day with other meaningful details. This is a special day, a great opportunity to go out somewhere. Enjoy lunch at a Japanese restaurant, catch a movie, or if possible, spend the day in Japan.