Tired of following trends that don't resonate with you? Fed up with being just another sheep in the herd? This article offers a set of rules to help you embrace your individuality and thrive as a nonconformist.
Part 1
Step 1. Stop worrying about what others think.
Stop worrying about what others think. At first, you’ll have to consciously push yourself, but it will become easier over time. This is the foundation of nonconformity.
Step 2. Share your decision.
Share your decision. Talk about it with everyone who tries to pressure you to “fit in.” Connect with those who accept you as you are, or with those who don't care what you think.
Step 3. Less drama, please.
Less drama, please. Don’t overact. Even a nonconformist has no reason to turn others against themselves.
Step 4. Forget everything you know about fashion when seeking new things.
Forget everything you know about fashion when seeking new things. Seriously, everything. When buying something, ask yourself what attracted you to it: its appearance or the label from a trendy designer? Reflect on whether you’re okay with that answer. If you are, buy it. If not, skip it. Nonconformity isn’t about wearing loud or flashy clothes; it means wearing what you genuinely like.
Step 5. Do what you want, when you want.
Do what you want, when you want. Just remember, you’ll have to face the consequences of your actions as well.
Step 6. Remember that different people have different beliefs.
Remember that different people have different beliefs. Don’t force them to embrace nonconformity; that would be highly inappropriate (don’t turn nonconformity into conformity!). However, by showing or explaining to others that they are unknowingly following the majority in various matters and not thinking for themselves, you might awaken them. Your actions that differ from the norm may irritate some, while inspiring others and prompting them to reflect.
Step 7. Be mindful of your boundaries.
Be mindful of your boundaries. Everyone has limits.
Step 8. Do something simple yet unexpected.
Do something simple yet unexpected. Dance in the rain. Wish someone a happy birthday while playing the ukulele, adopt a pet rat or a pet rock. Dress in the style of the 1920s. Do what no one else is doing!
Step 9. Experiment.
Experiment. Discover who you are, what you like and dislike. Many have their own ideals, standards, and beliefs. Reflect on what yours are.
Step 10. Solve problems unconventionally.
Solve problems unconventionally. Think about why everyone does things a certain way. If there’s sense and reason, start doing things differently. Of course, not everything will go as you wish, but if you survive, that’s perfectly fine; you’ll get it right next time!
Step 11. Be natural.
Be natural. Don’t pretend. Don’t follow a script, as that confines you in very tight limits—ask yourself if you really want that.
