You don't need to look feminine all the time. Be who you want to be. This way, you can embrace your inner tomboy. Read on to find out how to do it.
Part 1
Step 1: Revamp Your Wardrobe with Masculine or Sporty Clothes.
Open your closet and pick out clothes that are more suited for boys or have a sporty vibe. Add some masculine pieces to your wardrobe, steering clear of pastel colors and not overdoing it with pink. A little pink is okay if you want to look like a tomboy, but try wearing blue, light green, and black — these colors are especially popular among tomboys.
Step 2: If You're Good at Sports, Use It to Your Advantage.
If you're excelling in sports, don’t miss the opportunity to showcase that. Play football, basketball, baseball, or other sports like softball, dodgeball, table tennis, or lacrosse. When heading to practice, avoid wearing a dress or anything fancy. For example, football is quite an aggressive game, and a dress isn’t the best choice. And if sports aren’t your thing, don’t worry — just be yourself.
Step 3: Play Games That Guys Enjoy, Like Mario or Minecraft.
Engage in games that are popular among boys, such as Mario, Minecraft, and similar titles. Many guys love Minecraft. If they invite you to play, don’t hesitate — check out some tips to avoid awkwardness and try to act like one of the guys.
Step 4: Decide Who You Want to Be Friends With.
Know who you want to befriend. Hang out with boys from your class, but be careful not to come off as too friendly — this might lead to unnecessary rumors. Also, make friends with other tomboys; they will introduce you to more like-minded girls and cool guys who understand what it means to be a tomboy.
Step 5: Pay Attention to Your Hairstyle.
Think about your hair. If possible, consider getting a short haircut. If your parents are against it, try tying your hair in ponytails or opting for sporty hairstyles. Don’t overdo it with makeup. Nail polish is fine, but try to avoid too many pink shades.
Step 6: Don’t Scream Loudly When Scared.
Try not to scream too loudly when you’re scared. Instead, work on speaking in a lower voice and practice it.
Step 7: Try Not to Get Annoyed Too Often.
Try not to get mad too often. If girls tease you — that’s just part of their nature, so ignore them and move on. Time will tell, and they’ll eventually leave you alone.
Step 8: Don’t Strive to Be Excessively Neat.
Don’t aim to be too tidy. Wash your clothes from time to time, which is fine, but not every day. Don’t be overly clean, but don’t let yourself be a slob either. Find a balance.
Step 9: Being a Tomboy Doesn’t Mean You Can’t Be a Little Feminine.
Being a tomboy doesn’t exclude the possibility of being a little feminine. If your parents insist on you wearing girls’ clothes and you’ve tried to persuade them otherwise, explain that their demands are too strict, and guys will understand that you can’t stand up to them. Try to communicate to your parents that you dislike their interference; they might hear you out. However, don’t build too many hopes on that.
Step 10: Maintain Your Style.
Keep an eye on your style. Opt for sporty clothes in summer and sweaters or hoodies in winter. Prefer loose-fitting garments without fixating on tight clothing.
