How to Enjoy Pornography in the Comfort of Your Home

Warning: This article is intended for individuals over 18 years old.

Create a Comfortable Atmosphere

Step 1. Discuss with your partner what type of pornography you will watch.

Talk to your partner about what kind of pornography you will be watching. If you're watching alone, there’s no need to discuss preferences with anyone else, but if you’re doing it with your significant other, it's a good idea to discuss your desires beforehand.

• Watching pornography together can be an exciting and engaging experience, and in some cases, it can bring a couple closer together.[2] X Source
• Choose a genre or fantasy based on shared interests. By figuring out what you’re both not into, you’ll ensure a comfortable viewing experience.
• Ask, "What type of pornography would you like to watch?" or, "What kind of pornography makes you uncomfortable?".
• Never pressure your partner to watch something they don’t want to.
• Avoid interrogating your partner or getting upset if they don’t want to watch pornography with you.

Step 2. Pick the right time when you'll be alone or with your partner.

Choose an appropriate time when you’ll be alone or with your partner. Typically, nighttime is ideal, as there’s less chance of friends dropping by or receiving phone calls. If you share a room with someone, only watch pornography when you’re sure your roommate won’t be home. Also, pick a moment when your partner isn’t feeling tired or stressed, and always check if they’re in the mood to watch pornography before turning on a video or opening a magazine.

• Ask your partner: "Do you want to watch porn right now?"
• Check with family members to see if they plan to return home soon.
• Watch pornography in your room if you live with others. Avoid doing it in the living room or common areas.

Step 3. Make sure to thoroughly isolate yourself.

Be sure to isolate yourself properly. Lock the door, close the curtains, and double-check that no one is home. Additionally, it’s a good idea to check your phone for any messages or calls that may require immediate attention before watching pornography.

• If you share a room with someone, let them know you need some time alone.
• If your room doesn’t have a lock, shut the door and place a chair or large object in front of it. This will move if someone tries to enter and alert you.
• Getting caught watching pornography can be awkward, so make sure you’re alone before starting the process.

Step 4. Set a romantic atmosphere.

Create a romantic atmosphere. This is necessary not only for couples. Even if you're enjoying pornography alone, remember to dim the lights, light some candles, and remove any distracting clutter. Some people even play romantic music while watching pornography.

Find Pornography

Step 1. Determine what format of adult entertainment you want.

Decide what format of adult entertainment you want. There’s a lot of free content available online, as well as paid subscriptions to some adult entertainment websites. However, you might prefer magazines or DVDs.

Step 2. Buy DVDs or magazines online or at an adult store.

Purchase DVDs or magazines online or at an adult store. If you’re unsure of one nearby, use a search engine to find the closest option. However, you don’t necessarily have to go to a store, as plenty of pornography is available for free online.

Step 3. Search for pornographic videos online using your computer or smartphone.

Find pornographic videos online using your computer or smartphone. There are many popular free adult websites, such as Pornhub, xVideos, YouPorn, and so on. So you can simply select one of these options or search for “porn” in a search engine or the genre you’d like to watch, such as “lesbian porn.” Each site offers a variety of genres of pornography to choose from.

• It doesn’t matter if you want to watch straight, gay, or group porn; it’s all accessible online.
• Turn off safe search in your browser. Otherwise, pornographic sites may not show up.

Step 4. Watch what you want.

Watch what you want. You don’t have to stick with a video if it makes you feel uncomfortable. If you’re doing this with a partner, you can say, “I don’t like this video. Let’s watch something else.” If you’re alone, just switch the DVD or go to another website. Watching pornography should be a comfortable process.

Step 5. Communicate with your partner.

Talk to your partner. Just because you’re watching pornography doesn’t mean communication between you and your partner should stop. Stay connected with your significant other throughout the process. Observe their reactions, and if you sense they’re feeling uncomfortable, ask if everything is okay.

• It’s perfectly fine to laugh and joke around while watching pornography.
• Ask your significant other if they enjoy the pornography.
• Inquire what your partner would like to do while watching the video, DVD, or magazine.

Step 6. Fast forward to the parts you want to watch.

Fast forward to the parts you want to watch. Some videos may last over an hour. You might want to skip ahead on a DVD or video to find a part you like instead of watching everything in full. Additionally, if you’re watching pornography online, you might want to scroll through different videos until you find something that catches your interest.

Step 7. Relax and enjoy.

Relax and enjoy. If you’re new to this, check out what feels good to you. Remember, there’s no need to perform orgasms or achieve them, so feel free to simply explore this world.